Ok single guys, so how do I do this again?

[Timma]

I am not single but, I would say stop looking. I always find what I want when I stop looking

That's very true. When you're out there looking and searching you just don't find anything, but the minute you stop something comes along.

[alwaysgrowing]

Nah im just kidding. Most of the girls I currently work with are 17 or so.

Most states, 17 is above the age of consent

[alwaysgrowing]

I'll definately have to work up some bigger nuts before I try that first one. The opinion thing sounds good. Any example questions to ask? Knowing my dumb drunk ass, I'll probably say something like, "I need your opinion, do my shoes match my belt?" or some shit.

You'll be surprised how often the first one works. The first time I ever used it, I was at the mall. I saw this smoking hot girl walking in my directioon from the opposite end of the mall. Just before she walked by, I decided I had to do something, so I did exactly what I wrote. It worked. she was probably the hottest girl I ever slept with.

As for questions, something stupid works. I like asking, "Guys, I need your honest opinion, I know I try to dress nice, but do I look gay b ecause of it?" The laugh and go from there. Or since labor day just passed, "Guys,I need your honest opinion, is it okay to wear white after labor day?"

And never say girls. I always call them guys until one of them calls me on it, then I'll smile and come back with a quip along the lines of, "I only call intersting people guys, are you saying your not interesting?" Again, try this. For some reason it works.

[alwaysgrowing]

Almost forgot, if you go with the gay question, no matter what answer you get, interpret it as if they think being gay is a bad thing. Make them self conscious about it, then just go from there. Do it in a funny manner and you have two things going from you, confidence and funny

[The_Grinder]

You'll be surprised how often the first one works. The first time I ever used it, I was at the mall. I saw this smoking hot girl walking in my directioon from the opposite end of the mall. Just before she walked by, I decided I had to do something, so I did exactly what I wrote. It worked. she was probably the hottest girl I ever slept with.

As for questions, something stupid works. I like asking, "Guys, I need your honest opinion, I know I try to dress nice, but do I look gay b ecause of it?" The laugh and go from there. Or since labor day just passed, "Guys,I need your honest opinion, is it okay to wear white after labor day?"

And never say girls. I always call them guys until one of them calls me on it, then I'll smile and come back with a quip along the lines of, "I only call intersting people guys, are you saying your not interesting?" Again, try this. For some reason it works.

Hell yeah thanks.

Nah I'm sure the first one works wonders, I just don't have the nuts for it right off the bat. More power to you for having confidence like that. I'll try to work my way up to shit like that.

And as far as the "opinion" thing, I think I saw that on that VH1 show, "The Pickup Artist", with that tall dude who can supposedly pick up anyone. Anyone know if that show is still on? It was funny as shit.

[The_Grinder]

I definately think I have the ability to loosen up, and make a strange girl feel comfortable. My only challenge will be material. I find it hard to hold conversation with anyone, male or female, for more than 2 or 3 minutes. Also, I'm funny as fuck when I'm around people I know, but being witty on command will take some practice.

[alwaysgrowing]

Hell yeah thanks.

Nah I'm sure the first one works wonders, I just don't have the nuts for it right off the bat. More power to you for having confidence like that. I'll try to work my way up to shit like that.

And as far as the "opinion" thing, I think I saw that on that VH1 show, "The Pickup Artist", with that tall dude who can supposedly pick up anyone. Anyone know if that show is still on? It was funny as shit.

Just go for it. The first time was great. The next few times I did it I crashed and burned. I got too worried about it. The girl who I did it to the first time said I wasn't her type, not all preppy. But she said i seemed so sincere when saying it, so it worked. Its trial and error. gotta fail to learn.

And you get desensitized to rejection eventually. I still blush when a girl says no, I just get over quickly. No one has a 100% success rate. It is all a numbers game. Hit on ten girls in in a week, you should get two numbers minimum. Do that for a month, you have eight new friends.

MOst importantly, be honest with them. Tell them you just got out of a long term relationship, don't want to rush things. They will eat it up

[The_Grinder]

Word. I might give that one a try but the girl better be smokin....

Another question. I just realized that I probably see about 2 hot girls a day that come into GNC. That's 12 a week with the amount of days I work. Lets just assume 10 because I'm sure at least 2 during the week will come when the store is full of customers.

So 10 hot girls every week while I am at work. First of all, is the sales rep-customer relationship an ok ground to try and pick a girl up? How are we making the transition from talking about the product to getting personal. Also how are we making the transition from things like "What do you do?" and "do you go to school around here?" to actually getting a little more aggressive and building some attraction?

[STiRoids]

Man im with you... I just got out of a two and half year relationship and its ROUGH...

Ive been trying to go out and talk to girls again just like i used to....

Ive never been good at meeting girls in public places or work or through a friend like people suggest.

Ive always been good at meeting girls in clubs and bars... Everyone is different but thats where ive just had the most success.

Not to brag or anything but i used to be so good at meeting women right up until i met my girl... When i met her i decided to settle down for a while and a while just turned into years.

Now im back i find myself struggling for things to say and im no where as witty as i used to be before.

Im just trying to practice again and see what happens....


If anyone knows what ur goin through bro..... its me :hang:

[alwaysgrowing]

Word. I might give that one a try but the girl better be smokin....

Another question. I just realized that I probably see about 2 hot girls a day that come into GNC. That's 12 a week with the amount of days I work. Lets just assume 10 because I'm sure at least 2 during the week will come when the store is full of customers.

So 10 hot girls every week while I am at work. First of all, is the sales rep-customer relationship an ok ground to try and pick a girl up? How are we making the transition from talking about the product to getting personal. Also how are we making the transition from things like "What do you do?" and "do you go to school around here?" to actually getting a little more aggressive and building some attraction?

What do you do and do you go to school around here, don't bother asking. Every guy asks those questions. Be different. "Ask them where was the last place you went on vacation?" Then tell them how you were thinkning about going to Bermuda or something for spring break. Ask questions that take some thought, you will stand out

[Bouncer]

it helps if you are in shape. :)

somehow i get the vibe that you aren't exactly strict when it comes to your diet and training these days..

[The_Grinder]

it helps if you are in shape. :)

somehow i get the vibe that you aren't exactly strict when it comes to your diet and training these days..

I am in better shape than 80% of other guys who are out at the clubs. Is it a rule that I have to be 220+ and <8% BF to get a girl now?

Yeah I admit that over the past two weeks with everything going on, the stress has made it hard to take in enough calories. Not to mention the fact that I'm basically living out of my car due to the fact that I don't have a place temporarily.

[ROCKETW19]

I have two ways. If it is during the day, and your not out at a bar, I'll be direct. I'll catch a girl walking towards me a I like, and just as they are about to walk by my, lightly touch their arm. "excuse me, I just saw you walking by, and would kick myself all day if i didn't stop to tell you that you are beautiful. Hi my name is..." Yes it sounds gay, but it works when you sound sincere.

If i'm out somewhere, I simply say to girls, "hey, i need your honest opinion on something..." make up the rest as you go. They love giving their opinions

WTF? Dont ever walk up and touch a stranger, 90% of them will think you are a freak or something.
The rest sounds good though. I like the " I would just kick myself" line its funny girls like funny.

[alwaysgrowing]

WTF? Dont ever walk up and touch a stranger, 90% of them will think you are a freak or something.
The rest sounds good though. I like the " I would just kick myself" line its funny girls like funny.

It works. I'm not talking about full out grabbing the girl. Its a light touch on the arm. If you do it with confidence, it works. You seem unsure, you seem weird. You have to own it.

[alwaysgrowing]

I just thought about it, and the whole things is you have to come off as sincere when you do, as if something compels you to stop them. Then the touch is just an afterthought.