Ok single guys, so how do I do this again?

[ROCKETW19]

ill take you word for it! I dont have the balls to touch someone!

[stud_wit_style]

Read the book titled "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It takes place over a 2 year time period where he went from no one to world famous pick-up artist. I know it sounds cheesy...but this stuff really works. I've done it numerous times.

He worked under a guy by the name of Mystery, he has his own show on VH1 called "The Pick-Up Artist" and they give good tips on there too. Mainly they help you gain self confidence.

You can Google a lot of that stuff to learn more about him and his techniques. If you need any more info send me a PM.

Good luck!!

[The_Grinder]

Read the book titled "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It takes place over a 2 year time period where he went from no one to world famous pick-up artist. I know it sounds cheesy...but this stuff really works. I've done it numerous times.

He worked under a guy by the name of Mystery, he has his own show on VH1 called "The Pick-Up Artist" and they give good tips on there too. Mainly they help you gain self confidence.

You can Google a lot of that stuff to learn more about him and his techniques. If you need any more info send me a PM.

Good luck!!

I have heard a lot about this stuff. That show is fucking hilarious. The two biggest things I have taken from that show are keeping an upbeat, fun attitude... and using little harmless insults to raise your own value. Believe it or not I have actually heard a lot of their openers before seeing the show or hearing about the book. I think in 5 years, "I can only stay a minute, but I need a female opinion on something" will set off the same red flags as "you come here often?".

But you can't deny the confidence those guys have and the caliber of ass they get compared to their own looks.

[coffee-guy]

Jesus brother - the hard part isn't getting a girl - it is being able to sustain a lasting/rewarding relationship.

I will say this though - STOP THINKING/TRYING SO MUCH. People like genuine - if you're not yourself then you'll never get what you're looking for. It doesn't matter if it is picking up women or making friends or work relationships - just be yourself and be comfortable with YOU - anything more/less and it will eventually come out.

Just live life bro....

[SonofBone]

Last time I posted on this subject Shib said I was a geek :) (which may be true btw), but I'll throw in my .02 again.

Being single can be frustrating and cause you to not be yourself. Once I went on a date were I was really interested and I tried to be very courteous & gentleman like & it didn't work out. I think I came off as boring, intimidated, who knows...maybe she just didn't like me. You have to accept that they won't all work out.

The next night I went out with someone & didn't think I'd be that interested in them, so I say screw it and got plastered. It turned out to be one of the most fun dates I had. Then Solstice & I talked 6 weeks before we even met. I'm not recommending that, but it did give me a chance to just be myself and get to know her before we met. Even though it may be easier said than done, I think Fog is right, you just have to relax and be yourself. Anything else & they'll see through it.

[Timma]

Fog's got a point. It is harder to find a lasting relationship.

Here's an example for you of how you just need to play it cool and let things happen. When I go out to bars and such, I just keep to my own and talk to my friends and play darts. Well last week this strategy worked in a way. We were at this one bar and just sitting there when this girl comes up to me and starts talking. We hit it off instantly and have seen each other a bunch since. You just need to let things play themselves out. Don't try to push anything because it will just backfire. When the time is right it will happen.

[The_Grinder]

What if I don't want a lasting relationship? I just got out of two long relationships in a row. I dont exactly just want to have a bunch of one night stands. But just date/bang a girl for a week or two and then move on. Does life not work like that? :)

[SonofBone]

Doing that is okay until your dick falls off.

Seriously, if both parties know what is at stake then go for it, but one side usually ends up getting hurt in that scenario. It is easier said than done. Maybe dating several girls would be nice & just don't run any of them off after a couple of weeks. I've tried to be casual before but it always grows into more if I like them.

[alwaysgrowing]

What if I don't want a lasting relationship? I just got out of two long relationships in a row. I dont exactly just want to have a bunch of one night stands. But just date/bang a girl for a week or two and then move on. Does life not work like that? :)

Its better to get in and out in a night if you really want things not to get messy. If you drag it for several weeks, someone will end up catching feelings. And that just takes the fun out of it

[Bouncer]

Its better to get in and out in a night if you really want things not to get messy. If you drag it for several weeks, someone will end up catching feelings. And that just takes the fun out of it

you get no ass. :)

[alwaysgrowing]

you get no ass. :)

anal is kinda hard to get with one night stands, not impossible.

[Kiev]

Sounds strange but when i tell woman that i'm new to the area they seam to want to help me find something fun to do. Always be new and there for exciting interesting and nobody knows your business. Mystery and alot of thoughs guy dress exotic and express that there new to town and leaving soon. Hence easy one night stands. woman are as horny as men if not more. they just don't get caught.

[WonderWoman]

doesn't being single stink? lol.... :moon:

Just be yourself. Have you tried online dating?

[Stonecold54]

doesn't being single stink? lol.... :moon:

Just be yourself. Have you tried online dating?

yes but my computer keeps getting broken from the lotion

[LeanBeast]

women love assholes..

unfortunately, they dont like it when you come off as an asshole when you first meet/encounter them.. treat them super nice and they take you for granted, treat them like crap, and your in there like swimwear :D

as for the initial encounter.. if you look confident like you KNOW you got it in the bag, they eat that shit up