What is it about men & their pregnant wives

[FitnessBrat]

No. He wanted to, but we couldn't. Since I had the cyst on my ovary, sex was restricted for I think 8 or 12 weeks...then I started to show. Having sex could rupture the cyst that was supplying hormones to the fetus, and make it also very painful.

Oh, okay. Well it's probably a combination of worrying about harming the baby is some way (related to what you just said), viewing you as more "fragile", and most men start to stress about becoming a father/providing enough, etc (they just may not say so)

[redsquirrel]

more like he views you as "family". mom, child, etc..

instead of viewing you as hot wife you hold a different image now. sounds crazy but sort of the same image you have when you think of your mom or dad. its that comforting, down home feeling that has nothing to do with sex etc..

Really? That does sound crazy. Is it just while I am pregnant? So, to go without for 6+ months is better than thinking of your parents having sex? I mean, it makes sense- especially since he said he'd have to close his eyes. God knows who or what he's fantasizing about....

It helps that you would bang me.

[Bouncer]

It helps that you would bang me.

sweet! :D

i am not sure if it will change or not to be honest. just have to see. i always hear dudes saying "i cant do that to the mother of my child" when we are talking some dirty shit in the gym or whatever. something seems to change, you become more sacred in sense. people are different though. sonis may be back to normal after the baby is born.

[redsquirrel]

sweet! :D

i am not sure if it will change or not to be honest. just have to see. i always hear dudes saying "i cant do that to the mother of my child" when we are talking some dirty shit in the gym or whatever. something seems to change, you become more sacred in sense. people are different though. sonis may be back to normal after the baby is born.

No, I appreciate the honesty. It makes sense. It's just not what I want the answer to be- but that's ok.

It just better change once things go back to pre-prego times...

[Bouncer]

No, I appreciate the honesty. It makes sense. It's just not what I want the answer to be- but that's ok.

It just better change once things go back to pre-prego times...

you could always get it somewhere else yourself. if he is to dumb to realize how hot his wife is, that is his problem.

[Bouncer]

You get nothing from it? weird...

are you implying that you do get something out of giving someone a blowjob? :rofl:

[FitnessBrat]

You get nothing from it? weird...

When you know you're husband has no desire to be with you intimately - nothing about that is weird.

[redsquirrel]

are you implying that you do get something out of giving someone a blowjob? :rofl:

Yeah- I'd like the answer to that myself. There are VERY few women who enjoy giving head and getting nothing in return....especially for 9+ months. I don't mind it once in awhile, but I don't get off on it, by any stretch. I'm a penetration type of gal.

[redsquirrel]

When you know you're husband has no desire to be with you intimately - nothing about that is weird.

Exactly. And, Rado- you pretty much reiterated his feelings. He doesn't want to be intimate because he feels weird as you did.

[Bouncer]

I'm a penetration type of gal.

keep talking like that and your going to get it sonis or not! :doggy:

[Bouncer]

Here's my wife at our old place at only 35 weeks...Now you tell me...Do you think this is sexy? :) Especially when it bounces? fuck no:D

i have to re eat my meal now you piece of shit. sorry but that shit is rough.

[Bouncer]

Bouncer...you couldn't tickle a hamsters ass with your little schmeckle

:rofl:

[Bouncer]

And so is your asshole:)

some gay shit right there.

[Bouncer]

why you cut out the mom pic. she is hotness. he is a cute little dude, i gotta give it to ya.

[redsquirrel]

Look...He still loves you...I know women(pregnant or not) like to be or need to be reassured, which is perfectly fine with me....Being pregnant for most women is not sexy.

You should pass gas on him one night and keep it under the sheets.

BAHHH!! LMAO!

I'm not doubting that he loves me. I'm doubting if he's been faithful this long- especially with some ho client that I think is throwing herself at him! But, that coupled with the no sex is making me really paranoid.