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    My girlfriend decides to leave me to go on vaction with her friend for 4 days. I asked for to stay a night before she leaves, and she said her friend had plans to have a girls night out before they leave. I get mad b/c, truely I will miss her when shes away. She had decided to see me for a few hours and then go out with friends. I get upset b/c she was going to be away, and she choosed her friend over me. So we argued over the phone and she decided not to even show up to see me.

    Was I wrong to be mad?

    What do you ladies/guys think

  • #2
    We have been dating for about 7 mths, and used to live with each other for the last 1.5 mths. She has little ones that took over my house so she felt like that was too much for me, and then she got her own place. Since then we only see each other 2-3 times a week.

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    • #3
      Sounds like she isn't that serious about you

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      • #4
        sounds like you pushed her away with the jealous vibe.

        yes you were wrong to react the way you did.

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        • #5
          first off, she's not leaving you. she's going on vacation and will be back. secondly, smothering the poor girl with too much attention might have pushed her away. sometimes people just need a break from people they see on a regular basis. dna and i have had this "argument" plenty of times and it's not that we don't WANT to spend time with you. it's just that we just need some time to our friends. now i feel as though that she should've still shown up to see you before the girl's night, even for a few minutes, but you can't really assume what's going on in her head. but yeah. it'll be fine. cheer up ol' chap. :)

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          • #6
            Originally posted by dbjmofo View Post
            first off, she's not leaving you. she's going on vacation and will be back. secondly, smothering the poor girl with too much attention might have pushed her away. sometimes people just need a break from people they see on a regular basis. dna and i have had this "argument" plenty of times and it's not that we don't WANT to spend time with you. it's just that we just need some time to our friends. now i feel as though that she should've still shown up to see you before the girl's night, even for a few minutes, but you can't really assume what's going on in her head. but yeah. it'll be fine. cheer up ol' chap. :)
            uh... what argument?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by dna9488 View Post
              uh... what argument?
              let me take a wild guess...

              DNA: "can we hang out tonight dbj, i know we have hung out every night this week but i cant get your big tits off my mind"

              dbj: "na, i got better things to do" :clapback:

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              • #8
                She has been separated for 1.5 year and her husband had left her with nothing. She has the worst credit, no job, 3 kids, and going back to school. She moved in with her sister which they argued and was kicked out of the house. Therefore, I moved her and 3 kids with me and tried to help out. Feels as if she dont appreciates me.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by MMI View Post
                  We have been dating for about 7 mths, and used to live with each other for the last 1.5 mths. She has little ones that took over my house so she felt like that was too much for me, and then she got her own place. Since then we only see each other 2-3 times a week.
                  Originally posted by MMI View Post
                  She has been separated for 1.5 year and her husband had left her with nothing. She has the worst credit, no job, 3 kids, and going back to school. She moved in with her sister which they argued and was kicked out of the house. Therefore, I moved her and 3 kids with me and tried to help out. Feels as if she dont appreciates me.
                  i hate to tell ya this bro but this relationship is almost at the end of its road. time to move on my friend. if she wants to chase you then fine but you need to be the one that stops doing the chasing. act like you are over her. dont call her, let her call you etc..

                  and i dont mean to talk shit about your girl but i dont think it will be a big loss if you do break up. 3 kids, kicked out of her sisters house, moves in with boyfriend then moves out etc.. fuck her. she will do nothing but drag you down.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by dna9488 View Post
                    uh... what argument?
                    a couple here and there when i want to hang out with the girls on our ''friday date day'' and you would try to give me a guilt trip. We would always make it up some how though.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by dbjmofo View Post
                      a couple here and there when i want to hang out with the girls on our ''friday date day'' and you would try to give me a guilt trip. We would always make it up some how though.
                      dont be a pussy. tell him how you really feel.

                      i speak for dbj now: "friday date night" is fucking gay, i don't like a schedule like that.

                      you want all my time and i just dont like you as much as you like me. your fine to hang out with now and then but to be honest i am starting to fall for this Italian jerk from jersey. :retard:

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                      • #12
                        Well I do love this girl alot. Not interacting with her since she left (1 day ago) is killing me, and I cant even get a hold of her cause she didnt pay her bill and got turned off. Damn women, can't understand them but you still love them. lol:inlove:

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by dbjmofo View Post
                          a couple here and there when i want to hang out with the girls on our ''friday date day'' and you would try to give me a guilt trip. We would always make it up some how though.
                          OH gotcha. That's old news. If you do it recently I wouldn't mind.

                          Originally posted by THE BOUNCER View Post
                          dont be a pussy. tell him how you really feel.

                          i speak for dbj now: "friday date night" is fucking gay, i don't like a schedule like that.

                          you want all my time and i just dont like you as much as you like me. your fine to hang out with now and then but to be honest i am starting to fall for this Italian jerk from jersey. :retard:
                          :thumup:

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by MMI View Post
                            Well I do love this girl alot. Not interacting with her since she left (1 day ago) is killing me, and I cant even get a hold of her cause she didnt pay her bill and got turned off. Damn women, can't understand them but you still love them. lol:inlove:



                            Just curious - how old are you guys?

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by MMI View Post
                              Well I do love this girl alot. Not interacting with her since she left (1 day ago) is killing me, and I cant even get a hold of her cause she didnt pay her bill and got turned off. Damn women, can't understand them but you still love them. lol:inlove:
                              dont be blinded by "love" bro. look at the signs... she isn't exactly a great catch.. who is watching her kids now?

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