Hey, Hows it going?!

[the art of war]

I'm with ya on feelin alone frank, different situations but I wish you the best. Hope the gym goes well.

[FrankTheTank55]

I'm with ya on feelin alone frank, different situations but I wish you the best. Hope the gym goes well.

Gym went great!! Actually something Bouncer said stuck in my head while I was there.

Only worry about what you can control. Its true, one of my problems is I want everything around me to be perfect. I want my wife to act a certain way, I want my kids to have certain attitudes around them, just everything. So when my wife is being rude or cocky instead of getting frustrated and trying to make her see how retarded she is. I just control how I take it and how I react to her stupidity. One day she will see her mistakes. All I have to "control" is my relationship with my kids and myself. If she is a fucked up mom the kids will see that. But if I try to change her we will get in a huge fight and then I look like the asshole...

[Bouncer]

Gym went great!! Actually something Bouncer said stuck in my head while I was there.

Only worry about what you can control. Its true, one of my problems is I want everything around me to be perfect. I want my wife to act a certain way, I want my kids to have certain attitudes around them, just everything. So when my wife is being rude or cocky instead of getting frustrated and trying to make her see how retarded she is. I just control how I take it and how I react to her stupidity. One day she will see her mistakes. All I have to "control" is my relationship with my kids and myself. If she is a fucked up mom the kids will see that. But if I try to change her we will get in a huge fight and then I look like the asshole...

good thinking! :clapback:

[FitnessBrat]

i went through all that shit.

as long as one of the parents are there for you (my mom) it will be ok.

I certainly like to think that as well. :agreed:

[Bouncer]

I certainly like to think that as well. :agreed:

for sure. just got to give your kids confidence and be there for them. i always knew i was loved and my mom always made me feel good about myself.

and now i am a cocky prick. :rofl:

[FrankTheTank55]

for sure. just got to give your kids confidence and be there for them. i always knew i was loved and my mom always made me feel good about myself.

and now i am a cocky prick. :rofl:

If you dont mind me asking. How are you and your father now? Did you spend anytime with him after they split up?

[Mr I]

I'm just grateful for what I have lately, working, earning, working my way the wealth health and happiness and making progress, slowly lol!

[Shibby]

If you dont mind me asking. How are you and your father now? Did you spend anytime with him after they split up?

B will probably give you an answer that's more relative but...


My dad and I were fine for the most part when I was younger. I lived with him from 4-12 then I went to live with my mom. I was happier with my mom because her personality fit mine better. Later in life (23 and understood things a lot more) things happened and I didn't talk to him for a little over 2 years. So it all depends on the father I would assume.