Well the day has come

[FrankTheTank55]

So tomorrow my wife and kids move into their new house. Seriously, never been so sad my entire life. I gave her everything except our bedroom furinture. She has had most of her stuff packed for awhile. Its crazy just seeing all the empty nails on the walls and shit. I have learned so much about life the past couple months. Its going to be so hard to go from seeing my kids everyday and playing with them helping with homework or just chilling playing some wii together to seeing them part time. Nothing I can do about it I guess so hopefully things get better, they cant get any worse!

[mofo]

damn. i'm sure you won't be able to adjust fully but you'll find a way to cope. i'm assuming you'll still have quality time with your kids so that is something to look forward to.

[wnabeabeast]

I am so sorry to hear that brother. I know how it feels to be away from your kids and it is not easy but hopefully they are not moving to far so you'll get to see them pretty often.

[Bouncer]

just gotta make the best of things and move forward. dont look back and wish. best of luck.

[dna9488]

Sorry to hear that Frank. Good luck to you. I can't imagine what you're feeling.

Just say strong.

[Mr I]

I am seeing so many guys in the gym lately that are in their 40's, got married early, now split from their wives, living in a small flat and living a healthy busy life and absolutely loving it. Just because she jilted you don't mean you can't be as happy mate.

Don't go out and get drunk loads, or do things that will leave you pissed off, be healthy, get your rest, work, do the gym and maybe pick up a weekend hobby, don't they have crappy league baseball over there,I'd love to do that, just get yourself some outside interest, don't become a drip or I'll come over there and hit you with a wet fish. Your bound to be a lil slow and down for a bit but in good time you have a responsibility to yourself to pick up and get on with it all, life is for having fun mate, don't dwell on past, be the fun guy that the kids can't wait to see

[redsquirrel]

Sorry, to hear it Frank. I can't imagine having to go more than a couple days without seeing my baby.

But, think of your kids- at least they don't have to be witness to you & your wife not getting along anymore.

Just make sure the ALWAYS know, the split had NOTHING to do with them. As Mr. I said, this is a great opportunity for you to grow, try new things, etc.

[FrankTheTank55]

Thanks everyone! I came home just now and it looks like the Grinch came here and just took everything. But Im going to be alright. I am going to live in the gym when I dont have the kids. I just want to make sure the kids adjust. She did leave my bed here but only because it wont fit in her new room at her house. But again, thanks everyone for the kind words and advice.

[ROCKETW19]

I am seeing so many guys in the gym lately that are in their 40's, got married early, now split from their wives, living in a small flat and living a healthy busy life and absolutely loving it. Just because she jilted you don't mean you can't be as happy mate.

Don't go out and get drunk loads, or do things that will leave you pissed off, be healthy, get your rest, work, do the gym and maybe pick up a weekend hobby, don't they have crappy league baseball over there,I'd love to do that, just get yourself some outside interest, don't become a drip or I'll come over there and hit you with a wet fish. Your bound to be a lil slow and down for a bit but in good time you have a responsibility to yourself to pick up and get on with it all, life is for having fun mate, don't dwell on past, be the fun guy that the kids can't wait to see

Good post bro!

Frank in a few weeks you wont even miss that chick you will be out meeting all kinds of new ones. Trust me they are out there by the tons.
I am sorry I have no advise towards the kids as I just have a new born but as MR I said be that fun guy dont let them see you down.

[NewbieChris]

I'm giving you a big gay hug right now. Everything will be cool man. I like what Mr. I has to say.

[Bouncer]

Thanks everyone! I came home just now and it looks like the Grinch came here and just took everything. But Im going to be alright. I am going to live in the gym when I dont have the kids. I just want to make sure the kids adjust. She did leave my bed here but only because it wont fit in her new room at her house. But again, thanks everyone for the kind words and advice.

not and end to anything bro. its a start to your new life.

a life without the constraints of a bitchy wife. enjoy life and have fun.

make it a negative and it will be a negative. you choose.

[the art of war]

Thing's can always get worse Frank, you know this. Worse would be if it had continued and the kids were caught up in the middle of arguments etc - things are gonna be tough for you I'm sure man, I have zero exp w/divorce , children etc - but I know that a fresh start can do wonders, or it can give you freedom to really run astray. Be safe dog - you're a good guy and I'm sure you will make it through this. A lot of others have offered who have more experience in this area, but if you want to shoot me a PM and vent shit out, talk whatever, I'm around bro.

[Mr I]

Thing's can always get worse Frank, you know this. Worse would be if it had continued and the kids were caught up in the middle of arguments etc - things are gonna be tough for you I'm sure man, I have zero exp w/divorce , children etc - but I know that a fresh start can do wonders, or it can give you freedom to really run astray. Be safe dog - you're a good guy and I'm sure you will make it through this. A lot of others have offered who have more experience in this area, but if you want to shoot me a PM and vent shit out, talk whatever, I'm around bro.

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

"Thing's can always get worse Frank"

[the art of war]

shit I meant - could always get worse haha - my bad frank.

[Shibby]

shit I meant - could always get worse haha - my bad frank.

How is that any better? lol :disagree: