Why do females stay in abusive relationships?

[GrowthMan]

Women IMO are as much to blame as men. Stop being fucking stupid and leave the relationship. You say you can't? Why? If you have no friends, family or anyone that can help you out. Well then you should be grown enough and responsible to take care of your own shit.

I am a fucking idiot. Don't listen to me. No carbs. I thought this was directed to me. Didn't understand.

[dago]

Have you asked her specifically why she stays? What's he do for her?

Of course I asked her..at first he had a halfway decent job and was real nice so she says. She has a little money from what her grandparents left her, some land and a house its all paid for. She moved him in and now 2 years later he is unemployed and doesn't do shit as far as I know. She told me she feels like he is there for the free ride and at this point I want to just ask her is she retarded or what? Thats why I posted this thread I can't make any sense out of it..why she don't just kick him to the curb. I already told her I would remove him for her if needed..

[dago]

I can't tell you what to do but if anyone hurt a close friend or family member of mine they would never do it again..

I been thinking it over B I told her to just act like she was going to the grocery or whatever come get me and I would just go in and beat his brains out but she gets all scary and shit and says she knows I'm serious and doesn't want to see him get hurt. So I have a younger homie that could care less if the fucking sun came up tomorrow plus he's very good with his fists and owes me a favor on top of that. I drove him by there this afternoon so he could peep dudes car and pulled her facebook page so he could peep his pics. She still gonna know I had something to do with it but I will be at work or at church getting baptized I had nothing to do with it..:whistle

[mofo]

it's ironic that one of my good friends is going through something similar. her (now) ex would verbally abuse her and say she was a POS and such.

honestly, the girl is to be blame to an extent. some people have a faulty way of thinking about things in a relationship. some girls think that the 2 times a guy treats her well outweights the 100 times he beats her or is verbally abusive. to an extent, tough love will be helpful from the friends.

[Bouncer]

it's ironic that one of my good friends is going through something similar. her (now) ex would verbally abuse her and say she was a POS and such.

honestly, the girl is to be blame to an extent. some people have a faulty way of thinking about things in a relationship. some girls think that the 2 times a guy treats her well outweights the 100 times he beats her or is verbally abusive. to an extent, tough love will be helpful from the friends.

your gonna get smacked if you dont hush up.

[Mr I]

Bless brother rado he tries but cannot help but bullshit

[dago]

your gonna get smacked if you dont hush up.

:rofl:

[dago]

it's ironic that one of my good friends is going through something similar. her (now) ex would verbally abuse her and say she was a POS and such.

honestly, the girl is to be blame to an extent. some people have a faulty way of thinking about things in a relationship. some girls think that the 2 times a guy treats her well outweights the 100 times he beats her or is verbally abusive. to an extent, tough love will be helpful from the friends.

Ya but this chick stays in these type relationships..maybe she likes it is the only thing I can think of??

[mofo]

Ya but this chick stays in these type relationships..maybe she likes it is the only thing I can think of??

nah. my one friend does the same thing. only dates assholes. she thinks it has something to do with the guys she attracts. she honestly just degrades herself and when a guy takes notice of that and realizes he can emotionally man-handle her, he will jump on it. she has nothing good to say about herself (when she states a good quality, she has two negative comments to follow)

[Bouncer]

she has nothing good to say about herself (when she states a good quality, she has two negative comments to follow)

Opposite of me, I have nothing buy good stuff to say about myself. Lolz