Rado has been banned.

[Bouncer]

I woke up to a shit storm of pm's calling for him to be banned to start my weekend. I have defended him as long as I can, last night was the final straw.

He labeled someone a scammer that is innocent and threatened to fight him. When called out about how childish this was he then changed his story and said "i dont want to fight him i want to train bjj with him". lol

I cant continue to let him push members away and let him get away with things others would be banned for. It makes me look bad and it makes the forum look bad.

I always loved the guy but his ups and downs and the trouble it causes me on this forum is not worth it anymore.

Rado, if you read this I love ya bro but you forced my hand on this. I wish you nothing but the best and hope you can see what you did wrong here instead of blaming others.

[blm]

I think you called it awhile ago about his tren and him denying any adverse effects. He's always been up and down but last night was strange. Hope he can work out his demons.

[Bouncer]

he will view me as the enemy now, no doubt about it.

hope at some point he can see how long i have gone to bat for him. there is no doubt about it, i have been his best friend on these boards for a long time. i have stood by him while everyone else was shitting on him.

what do i get for it? i have to deal with people leaving the forum and pm'ing me constantly because of him.

i wont do it anymore. he has to go, i have no other choice.

[Mr I]

I betting this is a joke

[Bouncer]

I betting this is a joke

not a joke.

[Mr I]

That's a shame but in the fullness of time I been here I'm not surprised, just surprised its happened now. The guy rides people very hard when he wants to.

Don't know him but hope he finds happiness, probably see more variety of prsonalities shine through now, Rado was an attention magnet nd sucked the air out at times lol!

[FrankTheTank55]

I think he abused your friendship. If my friend or someone that always had my back, like you did his, owned a bar I wouldn't be in there thinking I could treat all the bar patrons like shit. I would want my friends bar to be the best and most successful place around and I'd represent him in the most positive way possible. He did pretty much the opposite! Basically Rado has been saying "Fuck your board Bouncer! I don't care if I run all your members off!"

[Bouncer]

agreed frank.

i will always love the guy, known him on the boards to long not too. but the problems he brings me here is to much and he dont seem to care. so i can no longer care.

[BEAST]

I think he abused your friendship. If my friend or someone that always had my back, like you did his, owned a bar I wouldn't be in there thinking I could treat all the bar patrons like shit. I would want my friends bar to be the best and most successful place around and I'd represent him in the most positive way possible. He did pretty much the opposite! Basically Rado has been saying "Fuck your board Bouncer! I don't care if I run all your members off!"

Well said.

[dago]

Idk what to say man..I shoulda just ignored him but after awhile you know it gets old. I'm no mma fighter but i'm no pussy either I pm him this morning told him meet me at Derby City MMA and I'd give him what he wants. The scammer comment is what hit a nerve. I'm no source don't care to be and don't even wanna be that deep in the game and rado knew that idk why he would want to label me like that. I'm sorry for my part in this guys.

[Mr I]

I think he abused your friendship. If my friend or someone that always had my back, like you did his, owned a bar I wouldn't be in there thinking I could treat all the bar patrons like shit. I would want my friends bar to be the best and most successful place around and I'd represent him in the most positive way possible. He did pretty much the opposite! Basically Rado has been saying "Fuck your board Bouncer! I don't care if I run all your members off!"

true

[ROCKETW19]

Man as I have said all along I like Rado. he is different that is for sure but if you know him thats just Rado. I do 100% agree with the banning if he would not listen to you B. He is a stuborn lil bastard thats for sure but I gaurantee Dago is no scammer ( you better not be dago,lol) just saying that alone would get someone banned in a heartbeat.

Man I could go on and on but I honestly think you made the right choice

[Scrumhalf]

Always bad to see an established member banned, it's a bit like watching a family member disowned but at some point if the conduct is detrimental to the community then drastic steps are appropriate. Maybe he can be let back in after he gets his shit together.

[COLOSSUS]

Thank you

[FitnessBrat]

B, I know you probably have mixed feelings here, and for that I understand why this was probably a tough decision. You have pretty much always stood up for Rado, against everyone else's understanding. I finally "get" that he obviously has a lot of problems/issues, and probably needs friends now more than ever. Unfortunately, he acts out in a way that is impossible to handle from a distance. Everyone has issues in their life. However, when you deny them, lash out at others, and never accept fault or responsibility, things never change. We can't help people that aren't wiling to help themselves.

I sincerely hope that Rado can work through whatever is going on, and maybe even come back as a respectable member that we can all get along with. You've said it a hundred times, you know he's a good guy deep down.

This board is a pretty tight knit group, and there aren't' that many of us. When there's conflict, it makes for a very hostile environment. I'll be the first to admit I PM'd Rocket to tell him the crap between us drove me insane. I can't stand conflict.


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