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k i got a prob with initiating sex... my girl doesn't like it at all when i try it... what she wants is that she initiates it every time, and that i should every time act suprised as if i didn't expect it... cuz that supposedly gets her "going"
this is what she wrote me in an email: "what gets me going is when I think you're not expecting it at all and then it's kinda like I get to surprise you or something and that makes me feel really good and into it. I know that is weird and I don't want you acting like you never want it cause that would probably be a bad thing too!"
i think that's bullshit... lately she's been coming up with these rules that just drive me mad... it totally kills the mood, and i don't feel like doing it afterwards...
it's kind of a 'long dist relationship' so i get to see her once or twice a week... and we maybe have sex like once a week... just last night she told me that i act as if "i expect it every time i see her"... and that doesn't turn her on...
i mean WFT? hell yeah i expect it... i'd fken do it non stop if it was upto me... but is it too much asking for once a week (or sometimes 2 weeks) ??
aaargh... she's really sweet, down to earth, simply put the best (and i really mean the best) girlfriend i've ever had... we've been together for 9 months now, and i have never even thought of cheating on her...
but if this shit continues i don't knwo what to do... sometimes i get really tempted (my ex for example has been calling me the last few weeks begging me to get together and stuff... at the club where i bounce at i get many phone numbers all the time, etc etc)
i think she's acting this way to "control" the whole sex thing... to make me have sex only when she wants it...
i read all the time about some of u guys doing it like every day, and i have to dream of doing it like once a week...
that's not fair... i mean there is other ways of getting it, but at this point i'm still hoping she'll change...
anyways, just had to vent... i'm really pissed off about it....
this is what she wrote me in an email: "what gets me going is when I think you're not expecting it at all and then it's kinda like I get to surprise you or something and that makes me feel really good and into it. I know that is weird and I don't want you acting like you never want it cause that would probably be a bad thing too!"
i think that's bullshit... lately she's been coming up with these rules that just drive me mad... it totally kills the mood, and i don't feel like doing it afterwards...
it's kind of a 'long dist relationship' so i get to see her once or twice a week... and we maybe have sex like once a week... just last night she told me that i act as if "i expect it every time i see her"... and that doesn't turn her on...
i mean WFT? hell yeah i expect it... i'd fken do it non stop if it was upto me... but is it too much asking for once a week (or sometimes 2 weeks) ??
aaargh... she's really sweet, down to earth, simply put the best (and i really mean the best) girlfriend i've ever had... we've been together for 9 months now, and i have never even thought of cheating on her...
but if this shit continues i don't knwo what to do... sometimes i get really tempted (my ex for example has been calling me the last few weeks begging me to get together and stuff... at the club where i bounce at i get many phone numbers all the time, etc etc)
i think she's acting this way to "control" the whole sex thing... to make me have sex only when she wants it...
i read all the time about some of u guys doing it like every day, and i have to dream of doing it like once a week...
that's not fair... i mean there is other ways of getting it, but at this point i'm still hoping she'll change...
anyways, just had to vent... i'm really pissed off about it....
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