Can a married man be friends with a woman?

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by bad14u
:rofl: Gotta love the Hooter Girls!!!

I will have to get a picture of her and some of the other ones some day with a disposable camera. she doesn't have huge boobs but she has such a nice body and pretty face. and an ASS that would make the pope kick out a stain-glass window!!!!

[bad14u]

Originally posted by stonecold54
and an ASS that would make the pope kick out a stain-glass window!!!!

:rofl: I've got to see this chick now!!!

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by bad14u
:rofl: I've got to see this chick now!!!

okay that will be my mission in the next few weeks. *note to self* get pictures of really hot chicks *end note*

[Puddles]

Shame on you boys! :whip:

Seriously though, if you have to hide going to Hooters from your wife you need to open up the lines of communication and do it now while you're still newly married. It's a normal guy thing to want to look at every nice pair of boobs and every hot ass they can, if you weren't doing it then there would be reason for concern! Not allowing a guy to look or making him feel guilty about it just goes against human nature. Just because guys are looking does not mean they're gonna do any more than that though, besides, most of the time they'd get turned down even if they try. We all have our fantasies, guys dream of plowing every hottie they see and women dream of a perfect husband, usually neither dream comes true, but we can still be happy. :D


Back on to the subject of this thread...Can a married man be friends with a woman? Yes. Will he want to screw her? Yes. Will he do it? Most of the time no. Even innocent flirting is fine if both parties know the boundries. It's one of those fun little perks in life. The men and women who have issues with their partners having friends of the opposite sex are usually like that due to low self esteem. People need to have more faith in the strength of their relationships and more trust in their partners. A lack of trust will tear a relationship down over time.

[lordikon]

Originally posted by redsquirrel
The most entertaining thing to me about something like this, is that men are such fucking idiots when it comes to covering their tracks. What's even funnier is when they get caught and calling us women psychos for checking up on them in the first place.

Do they not think that we can read histories on IM, or check their cell records online?? WTF? It's not even like we need to go out of our way to catch them!! Luckily, I haven't had to do that for over a year. But, don't think I don't keep my ducks in a row every once in awhile.

But isn't it sad when people have to go to those lengths to catch others? I agree what he did was wrong, and you shouldn't flat out trust him again, he'll have to earn it. I've done some bad things in my past that I would do anything to take back, and am now in a situation where my gf checks up on lots of things I do. It irritates the shit out of me, and at the same time I feel that I deserve it a little bit. But let me tell you, if she'd cheated on me, and I chose to forgive her, noone is worth the effort of me constantly having to check-up/spy on them everyday. Then she'll tell me she trusts me, but she can only go as far as to say that because she's checked up on me and it seems like I've been good.

My point is, what's the point in having a relationship that you can only stand because you've checked up on what your spouse has done every minute of the day? Then you spend half your time stressing/worrying about what they could be up to, and your only relief comes when your "checking up" has gone ok....for that day.

Is it worth it?

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by Puddles
Shame on you boys! :whip:

Seriously though, if you have to hide going to Hooters from your wife you need to open up the lines of communication and do it now while you're still newly married. It's a normal guy thing to want to look at every nice pair of boobs and every hot ass they can, if you weren't doing it then there would be reason for concern! Not allowing a guy to look or making him feel guilty about it just goes against human nature. Just because guys are looking does not mean they're gonna do any more than that though, besides, most of the time they'd get turned down even if they try. We all have our fantasies, guys dream of plowing every hottie they see and women dream of a perfect husband, usually neither dream comes true, but we can still be happy. :D

well we actually go a lot together to hooters but we have never been there when MY waitress is there. LOL It would be a shock to her if devon ran up to me and gave me a hug. my girl would probably knock her out. LOL-of course if they wrestly their clothes might come off. Hmmmmm.

On subject I think I can be friends with anyone else and my wife can be friends with anyone she wants to. I don't check up on her and she doesn't on me. but I can tell you this, if I ever found out she cheated I am almost 99% sure that it would be a divorce and I have told her this. I did bad things when I dated but marriage is a different ball of wax. I take that very serioulsy.

[Puddles]

Stone, from now on you are required to bring your camera to Hooters when you go with the wife! I love wrestling pics. ;)

[Stonecold54]

Originally posted by Puddles
Stone, from now on you are required to bring your camera to Hooters when you go with the wife! I love wrestling pics. ;)

:D