Seems to be coming together

[Bouncer]

Lets just clarify a few things here big guy.

I have never stated, insinuated, or even hinted that I believe your relationship with Sana was for money. My point to you is this:

It is easy to sit on a pedestal and review someone elses life and tell them they are wasting their time. My post had nothing to do with Sana or you relationship, rather the way you insult my job. Because as of right now it is something to support me while I achieve a body I am happy with.

Having been raised with money does not mean someone doesn't face challenges. They are a different set of challenges, maybe one you do not have respect for, but challenges none the less.

You're doing to me, what I have done to others. Insulting what they do as a living as a means to say they are not living up to their potential. You instantly assume there is some fault in that person, it is clear in your posts when we talk about my occupation.

What you do not realize is this, Sana works 12 hr days. I could work 12 hr days in an instant if I chose. I am not hindered by lack of education, nor the proper social networking. I lack the 'want' to do that at this point in time. I think you must realize the benefit of a job that does not follow you home. The benefit of a job that allows me the ability to support myself enough to pursue a passion that I just recently been able to realize, unlike so many on this board.

Whether it be of my own laziness or lack of ambition I was unable to be healthy and happy in my body when I was young and I certainly didn't have the balls to go injecting something I bought from a fellow student in the school bathroom. All those statements being made, I am not saying it is a bad thing, I am simply saying that is the course my life took.

Now, I realize there is something more important I would like to achieve than an income threshold or personal wealth. That is why I work the job I do, because at this moment in time my body requires more attention than my bank account. End of story. That was and is why I said what I said.

well said and agreed.

part if why i made my apologize post was because i had remembered this thread. i have no right to sit here an judge others like that.

i got nothing but love for ya chris.

[NewbieChris]

everything i have i made happen.

chris was born with a silver spoon, goes home to daddys mansion every night and wants to be applauded for working at the ymca. had a chance to do anything he wanted on his dads coin and didnt...

i was born in the gutter.

my mom gave me guts, heart and a strong mind... everything i have is because i made it happen.

i am by no means what i consider "wealthy" but make no mistake. i will be.

if i sound like an asshole in anything i said there.. then so be it.

Lets just clarify a few things here big guy.

I have never stated, insinuated, or even hinted that I believe your relationship with Sana was for money. My point to you is this:

It is easy to sit on a pedestal and review someone elses life and tell them they are wasting their time. My post had nothing to do with Sana or you relationship, rather the way you insult my job. Because as of right now it is something to support me while I achieve a body I am happy with.

Having been raised with money does not mean someone doesn't face challenges. They are a different set of challenges, maybe one you do not have respect for, but challenges none the less.

You're doing to me, what I have done to others. Insulting what they do as a living as a means to say they are not living up to their potential. You instantly assume there is some fault in that person, it is clear in your posts when we talk about my occupation.

What you do not realize is this, Sana works 12 hr days. I could work 12 hr days in an instant if I chose. I am not hindered by lack of education, nor the proper social networking. I lack the 'want' to do that at this point in time. I think you must realize the benefit of a job that does not follow you home. The benefit of a job that allows me the ability to support myself enough to pursue a passion that I just recently been able to realize, unlike so many on this board.

Whether it be of my own laziness or lack of ambition I was unable to be healthy and happy in my body when I was young and I certainly didn't have the balls to go injecting something I bought from a fellow student in the school bathroom. All those statements being made, I am not saying it is a bad thing, I am simply saying that is the course my life took.

Now, I realize there is something more important I would like to achieve than an income threshold or personal wealth. That is why I work the job I do, because at this moment in time my body requires more attention than my bank account. End of story. That was and is why I said what I said.

[alwaysgrowing]

everything i have i made happen.

chris was born with a silver spoon, goes home to daddys mansion every night and wants to be applauded for working at the ymca. had a chance to do anything he wanted on his dads coin and didnt...

i was born in the gutter.

my mom gave me guts, heart and a strong mind... everything i have is because i made it happen.

i am by no means what i consider "wealthy" but make no mistake. i will be.

if i sound like an asshole in anything i said there.. then so be it.

B, I wasn't knocking you or Sana at all. Clarifying what Chris said, thats all.

On a side note, I am taking applications for a sugar momma if anyone is reading this.

[Timma]

so if by sugar momma you guys just mean she makes more money then me... then yea you are correct. but that is the only sense of the term that you are correct about..

That's what I mean by it, and she pays for things more often than you. I don't feel it implys you are with them for just the money. If you love her she can still be your sugar momma.

[Bouncer]

What's wrong with a sugar momma?

let me also be clear about this.

does she make more money then me.. yes she does.

but that dosent mean she is a "sugar momma". "sugar momma" implies that you are only with someone for the money.

i would be with her no matter what she made. when i first met her she wasn't making half of what she makes now. i am with her because she is perfect for me. she balances out my tense and reactive personality with calm and reason. she absolutely brings out the best in me and i bring out the best in her. we have a great time together...

so if by sugar momma you guys just mean she makes more money then me... then yea you are correct. but that is the only sense of the term that you are correct about..

[Bouncer]

I think me and always were just explain what newbie chris meant, if i got angry at people that had wealth I wouldn't have any friends.

everything i have i made happen.

chris was born with a silver spoon, goes home to daddys mansion every night and wants to be applauded for working at the ymca. had a chance to do anything he wanted on his dads coin and didnt...

i was born in the gutter.

my mom gave me guts, heart and a strong mind... everything i have is because i made it happen.

i am by no means what i consider "wealthy" but make no mistake. i will be.

if i sound like an asshole in anything i said there.. then so be it.

[Timma]

What's wrong with a sugar momma?

[Konitz]

I think me and always were just explain what newbie chris meant, if i got angry at people that had wealth I wouldn't have any friends.

[Bouncer]

YouTube - Nas - Hate Me Now

[Bouncer]

my only response to the 3 posts above is a quote from one of my favorite rap songs ever..

Don't hate me, hate the money I see, clothes that I buy
Ice that I wear, clothes that I try, close your eyes
Picture me rollin, sixes, money foldin
Bitches honies that swollen to riches, Nas get in ya
Most critically acclaimed Pulitzer, prize winner
Best storyteller thug narrator my style's greater
Model dater, big threat to a lot of you haters

...................

People fear what they don't understand, hate what they can't conquer
Guess it's just the fury of man
Became a monster, on top of the world, never fallin
I'm as real as they come, from day one, forever ballin

[Konitz]

I think he is saying she is your sugar momma

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[NewbieChris]

say again?

Just saying don't give me such a hard time for working at a YMCA right now...

[alwaysgrowing]

say again?

I think he is saying she is your sugar momma

[Bouncer]

I think you need to think about this statement and realize what it means...

say again?

[NewbieChris]

you do have a point. sana makes about 110k a year and she pretty much works 12 hour days without hardly even a lunch brake.

she does go to the gym in the morning like 3 times a week but its hard for her.

I think you need to think about this statement and realize what it means...