I think it's finally gonna happen....

[Pumpdogg]

Never read that anywhere in the marriage vowels. I thought you were a respectable woman DG who always talked abput her kids etc.. What a shame. I assume I will be the only one to say i think it is a bad idea and sick:(

PD

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by Pumpdogg
Never read that anywhere in the marriage vowels. I thought you were a respectable woman DG who always talked abput her kids etc.. What a shame. I assume I will be the only one to say i think it is a bad idea and sick:(

PD

All I know is, I wouldnt look up to my parents the same way if I found out they did something like that. I think its a bad idea also.

Are your husbands going to touch each other and stuff? :gay:

[redsquirrel]

Originally posted by Pumpdogg
Never read that anywhere in the marriage vowels. I thought you were a respectable woman DG who always talked abput her kids etc.. What a shame. I assume I will be the only one to say i think it is a bad idea and sick:(

PD

I agree. I didn't see it in my vows, either. You have always talked about what great pride you take in raising your family. So I guess I just don't get how this all was generated, seeing as how it appeared that you had such strong family values. And I agree that if I found out my parents did that, I'd be pretty disgusted.

It's hard enough to be married and STAY married these days. When you start throwing in other people and all of the emotions that go with it, it seems like a death wish, and a recipe for disaster, IMHO.

Some people, like Puddles can handle it. There is a reason she does it, and it's because of her sexual orientation. It's not out of lust, but for lack of a better word- necessity. And they don't invite other men into the bedroom.

There is no way I would ever feel the same way about my husband if I were to watch him have sex with another woman.

Why get married then? I mean, people have children without being married all the time.

[dreamgirl]

Originally posted by Pumpdogg
Never read that anywhere in the marriage vowels. I thought you were a respectable woman DG who always talked abput her kids etc.. What a shame. I assume I will be the only one to say i think it is a bad idea and sick:(

PD

Sorry you think less of me because of this.

[dreamgirl]

Originally posted by redsquirrel
There is no way I would ever feel the same way about my husband if I were to watch him have sex with another woman.

Why get married then? I mean, people have children without being married all the time.

Well, to me, I can't wait to watch him with another woman. I'm actually looking forward to that part the most.


I've been married almost 8 years and we've been together for 10. We have a great relationship, family and we've also talked about trying this for years. I understand not everyone would agree with this. I love my husband and he is wonderful. There isn't a day that goes by that I ever question why I married him.

The couple that we have chosen is just like us. They have children and they didn't want to bring a stranger into their bed. We have had really fun times together this far and we have all talked about trying this together.


and no the guys aren't going to be together... but us girls, that may be another story... we'll see

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by dreamgirl
Sorry you think less of me because of this.

i dont think less of you. i think your still a good person but i think your making a bad choice. think about your kids. what happens if your husband and this other women actually really like each other and all of the sudden you feel like he likes her more then you. its a very dangerous game.

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by Pumpdogg
Never read that anywhere in the marriage vowels. I thought you were a respectable woman DG who always talked abput her kids etc.. What a shame. I assume I will be the only one to say i think it is a bad idea and sick:(

PD

It is. Sorry, for being honest!:agree:

[Shibby]

Originally posted by redsquirrel
Why get married then? I mean, people have children without being married all the time.

:sillyfu:

[dreamgirl]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
what happens if your husband and this other women actually really like each other and all of the sudden you feel like he likes her more then you.

I would assume he's gonna like her more right now because she is new and different. To me that's ok. I am not at all worried that he'll run away with her and I am not gonna run away with this other guy.

If he ends up running away, he probably would have done it in time anyway....

[Shibby]

Originally posted by dreamgirl
Well, to me, I can't wait to watch him with another woman. I'm actually looking forward to that part the most.

Be careful. It sounds great and all, but people like puddles that it works out for isn't as common as everyone's fantasy. The first time is never like you expected and can be very diffucult to get past once you have done it.

[Shibby]

Originally posted by dreamgirl
I would assume he's gonna like her more right now because she is new and different. To me that's ok. I am not at all worried that he'll run away with her and I am not gonna run away with this other guy.

If he ends up running away, he probably would have done it in time anyway....

What about one of the people from the other couple? What of one of them gets attached? There your friends right and what if they broke up because of it? What if one of them starts becoming obbsessed and interfearing with your marriage and family? To me it's better to do it with a stranger if your going to.

[psyko1]

some of you guys just don't have an open mind. DG as long as you're sure that you both are ready have fun. talk about it afterwards with your husband, ask him how he feels. make sure you keep communicating.

as for you all that would think less of your parents because of this what exactly do you think they were doing behind closed doors while you ALL were sleeping? how much foreplay do you think was involved? do you think any less of them now? what if i told you they had sex before they were married? think any less of them now?

DG your sex life has nothing to do with the way you raise your children. frankly those remarks are absolutely childish. your sex life is none of your kids' business. all your children need to know is that mommy and daddy love them.

and one last thing just because YOU may not like it, or YOU couldn't stand to think about it, other people are different and have different desires.

[Move2lt]

Can anyone say HIV!

[Pumpdogg]

Originally posted by dreamgirl
Sorry you think less of me because of this.

No I feel sorry for your children and your marriage. There has to be something lacking for both you and your husband to go for this. Everyone has issue's on this planet, and how we deal with them is very predictable at times. Something has happened to you along the way in life to make you feel that this activity is okay. Perhaps you just want more attention because you have had children and you need to feel sexy to more than just your husband, Im not a therapist so I wont delve into all the possibilites, however you know why you feel this way, and it is not ...... just because. For every action their is a reaction, this applys to all things in life, I hope you both are prepared.

PD

[Bouncer]

Originally posted by psyko1
some of you guys just don't have an open mind.

Damn right. I am the biggest Archie Bunker mother fucker you will ever find. Guys that have "open minds" are usually fags. :)