I think it's finally gonna happen....

[wnabeabeast]

Hey DG here is a different question are the other woman in this group hot as you?if they are not your husbant is just down gradeing.I know that comment probably didn't sound right but if I have a wife as beutiful as you are I would't have sex with any other woman just because we are swinging unless they are some smoking hot once in a life time apurtunity kinda girls.other wise he would be stupid to do anything less.

[decadecadeca]

Best thing I've ever read here......

"Damn right. I am the biggest Archie Bunker mother fucker you will ever find. Guys that have "open minds" are usually fags."


I laughed so loud I woke up my wife. Anyway, not that anyone gives a shit but here is my two cents. When I was younger and single I did some voyeuristic shit and some swapping with a girlfriend. I knew she wasn't miss right, just miss right now. So I didn't really care what she did, if I got to watch her with another girl it was all cool. Now, my wife and I have never come close to doing anything like that. I can't even imagine it. When I even catch another dude checking my wife out, I go completely cromag and start asking him WTF is his problem. I could never swap wives. And honestly I don't see how other people can be in love and do that. But you're all consenting adults so hopefully the decision doesn't turn out to be a huge mistake. Just seems like the swinging thing is just smoke from another fire.

[GreekTank]

Let's hope she dosen't go through with it bros & siss, and she takes our advice not to, even though I have a feeling she will.

[psyko1]

Originally posted by GreekTank
Let's hope she dosen't go through with it bros & siss, and she takes our advice not to, even though I have a feeling she will.

so i guess you don't second the vote for a live webcast anymore?

[psyko1]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
She would have went from the love of my life to dirty slut overnight.

all because YOU asked her to fuck your friend huh? wouldn't it be different if she requested it?

[bad14u]

People, people , people.......it takes all types to make the world work!

Everyone of us here has done something that others would say is wrong! Some have injected shit into their bodies, others have snorted , smoked and drank whatever! Others have invited whoever into their bedrooms!Others gamble...and so on! You live, you learn, you move on!

Not everyone can have an open mind! If we all did this world would go to shit and quick!

"Live and let live! I say.

And let he who hath not sinned cast the first stone!

[BENCH355ANIMAL]

You refer to the love of your life as a "hoe"?

That went over your head. She was and is the love of my life, BUT if she would have said yes.....then she would have instantly turned into a hoe, and I would have fucked her like one. Get it now?

all because YOU asked her to fuck your friend huh? wouldn't it be different if she requested it?

Either way. How many girls you know or been with would just come out and tell you they wanted to fuck your friend, or another guy for that matter? Use your head. I posed the question to see if she was slutty enough to do so, or had thought about it. She obviously is a good woman, and worth the rest of my life. Yes....even doing the "test" was stupid, but this was in the beginnings of our relationship almost 3 years ago. We have a son now, and plan to be married by next spring.

[Mr I]

Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....

Originally posted by dreamgirl
We've been talking to this couple about swinging together for a couple of months. We've gone out 2 times and even ended up at eachothers houses, but no one knows how to start it all. Were all new to this - never tried- and everyone was nervous the last time, and no one wanted to step up. WEll, we have a date for this Saturday scheduled. I promised the other husband that I would start something... any tips?

Any tips? yeah snap out of it!

If you and your man give a shit about each other then what the fuck are you doing? Your effectively bringing somebody else into you bedroom, thats gonna split you up in the end, seen it before time and again with freinds.


If you and your current partner don't give a fuck about each other anyway and its just convenience sex then well what the hell, but I think you'd both be happier in the long run looking for partners of more than skin surface attraction.

Its about respect for each other, and your showing none of it in my view!!

[The_Jarhead]

Re: Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....

Originally posted by decadecadeca
When I even catch another dude checking my wife out, I go completely cromag and start asking him WTF is his problem.

No offense Bro but Guys "USUALLY" are like this cause they are afraid their girl will find something better. Someone who is very secure in them selves and their relationship have no need to be jealous. I have no problems with guys looking at my wife. Hell for a while she an armature website going. It didn't bother me at all. I knew that I had nothing to worry about and all these guys drool over her as much as they want. I'm still the one she goes to bed with every night and I always will be.

Originally posted by Mr incredible
Any tips? yeah snap out of it!

If you and your man give a shit about each other then what the fuck are you doing? Your effectively bringing somebody else into you bedroom, thats gonna split you up in the end, seen it before time and again with freinds.


If you and your current partner don't give a fuck about each other anyway and its just convenience sex then well what the hell, but I think you'd both be happier in the long run looking for partners of more than skin surface attraction.

Its about respect for each other, and your showing none of it in my view!!

If you don't agree then fine, but why do have to go and say they must not care about each other. I know many swingers who have been very happily married for many years, and are still very much in love. Some people are secure enough in their lives and relationships to separate love and sex. Some aren't, and some don't want to. That doesn't make any of them right or wrong.


DG - If you and your husband are the type of people who can do something like this then go for it, BUT just make sure you and your husband have thoroughly discussed everything before hand.

[Mr I]

Re: Re: Re: I think it's finally gonna happen....

Originally posted by Mr Incredible
If you don't agree then fine, but why do have to go and say they must not care about each other.

DG - Maybe it was wrong to suggest that you and hubby don't care for each other, I just have a hard time understanding that if you do, and your sound of mind then how could you do this?

[i]I know many swingers who have been very happily married for many years, and are still very much in love. Some people are secure enough in their lives and relationships to separate love and sex. Some aren't, and some don't want to. That doesn't make any of them right or wrong.]

I don't want to seperate love and sex with my woman, yeah sometimes we get down right dirty, but I would never cheat or bring somebody into the bedroom, I think its disgraceful!

[decadecadeca]

Quote: "No offense Bro but Guys "USUALLY" are like this cause they are afraid their girl will find something better. Someone who is very secure in them selves and their relationship have no need to be jealous."


I disagree, it's your opinion but it's off the mark in my case. If she was by herself it would be different, but when I'm walking right beside her and someone is stupid enough to let me catch him eyeballing her then it's a lack of respect. And he'll either drop his eyes when he sees me looking or he'll cut and run when I ask what the fuck his problem is. It's disrespectful, plain and simple.

I'll admit I'm very jealous when it comes to my wife. She's the most important thing in my life so I tend to be protective of that. That's cool if you don't mind other guys looking at your GF and bopping the bologna. I have a little more respect for my wife than that. Trust me, it runs both ways. If she ever caught me slippin up, the boricua temper comes right out.

It's just a strange concept to me that people claim to love each other with all their heart and then have no problem with something as intimate as sex with someone else. But it's not my place to judge anyone. Like I said they're all consenting adults.

[Mr I]

Originally posted by decadecadeca
Quote: "No offense Bro but Guys "USUALLY" are like this cause they are afraid their girl will find something better. Someone who is very secure in them selves and their relationship have no need to be jealous."


I disagree, it's your opinion but it's off the mark in my case. If she was by herself it would be different, but when I'm walking right beside her and someone is stupid enough to let me catch him eyeballing her then it's a lack of respect. And he'll either drop his eyes when he sees me looking or he'll cut and run when I ask what the fuck his problem is. It's disrespectful, plain and simple.

I'll admit I'm very jealous when it comes to my wife. She's the most important thing in my life so I tend to be protective of that. That's cool if you don't mind other guys looking at your GF and bopping the bologna. I have a little more respect for my wife than that. Trust me, it runs both ways. If she ever caught me slippin up, the boricua temper comes right out.

It's just a strange concept to me that people claim to love each other with all their heart and then have no problem with something as intimate as sex with someone else. But it's not my place to judge anyone. Like I said they're all consenting adults.

Fuckin A Bro! I don't try for eye contact like I would do when I was single, but even then, if the woman is walking with a man, thats enough for me and I won't eyeball, its disrespectful!

As for swinging, I'm not insecure in my relationship, but that doesn't make it ok to fuck other people, or kiss them on the lips for that matter.

[GreekTank]

Originally posted by BENCH355ANIMAL
That went over your head. She was and is the love of my life, BUT if she would have said yes.....then she would have instantly turned into a hoe, and I would have fucked her like one. Get it now?



Either way. How many girls you know or been with would just come out and tell you they wanted to fuck your friend, or another guy for that matter? Use your head. I posed the question to see if she was slutty enough to do so, or had thought about it. She obviously is a good woman, and worth the rest of my life. Yes....even doing the "test" was stupid, but this was in the beginnings of our relationship almost 3 years ago. We have a son now, and plan to be married by next spring.

Sounds right, after your explanation. Smart tactics on your part

[psyko1]

Originally posted by GreekTank
Sounds right, after your explanation. Smart tactics on your part

how the hell do you figure?

BenchAnimal why did she say no? because she was ass naked when you "yelled" for your friend all of a sudden. i'm sure she had no clue what was going on with you interrupting sex to yell for your buddy to come barging in the room and "look" at her tits. you said she was asleep so i'm thinking she wasn't drunk, it was all a shock and a surprise for her. the real test should've been done the next weekend when you, your friend, AND her were all drunk. think real hard about it, do you still think she would've said no after you already put the thought in her mind? and let me guess after you said "I was just drunk, and got a little too freaky" you never talked about it again did you? did you ask her again? of course she wouldn't request it afterwards it was something you did out of the blue for no damn reason (in her eyes). so tell me were you really satisfied with YOUR "test"?

[bjbabe]

Dreamgirl

I know that a lot of people here are judging you, But i just would like to say congratulations for having the courage to try something new. Good Luck with that! I have asked my boyfriend to swing with another couple but he wont agree. I hope its fun and exciting for you and your honey.

Let me know all the details, maybe i will be able to convince my honey.

Good luck

BJBABE