I am thinking about crippiling a co-worker

[Bouncer]

Okay, you're gonna get pissy at this...just so you know in advance.

I honestly, do not understand this mentality at all. Winning the physical fight, doesn't make you right. All it does is shut one party up. I can think of a few examples/questions I have off the top of my head to illustrate this.

Bouncer like to talk shit on my sister...and I think its complete bs. Its annoying and in reality, really disrespectful. If we were to fight, and assuming what he leads members of the board to believe is true (about his size/strength) I would get my ass kicked. So, its not like it makes him right to do what he does. It doesn't solve the situation or stop the annoyance, it just 'embarrasses' the losers (my) 'man hood'. I guess that is what I really don't understand.

I think you like the idea of fighting because you feel you'll kick the other dudes ass, and that makes you the 'winner'. All in does though, is show your superior ability to fight.

In your case '3' (I can never remember the full name), I just don't see how you can accept physical strength as you determining factor in how to settle something. I mean, Christianity in general, seems pretty clear on the idea that words and God can bring people together, regardless of the hostility of an opposing party. (Not always, but as what I see as an overall theme).

Do you really think that God intended you to fight your 'brother' because he's a fucking moron and makes stupid ass comments?

agreed.

FYI you would beat my ass.

[Bouncer]

This guy needs to be told to shut the fuck up in any words you use Thoes are the ones i would use.
If he puffs up or acts all big and bad Punch him in his fucking mouth. All that other walk away shit is for fags If you do something that bothers me I will tell you to stop if you dont we will fight win or loose we will handle it right then and there,

time, place, and situation my friend.

like the situation i laid out to shibby. if he was at the zoo and some guy came up and disrespected his wife and son, then the guy deserves to be dropped.

but in this situation the guy wasnt even directly talking about his wife or daughter and was just being a dumbass at work. like i said, pull him aside, tell him to stop being a dumb ass etc..

but this whole following the guy home and all this crap is a bunch of shit.

[Shibby]

How Christian of you? :D

Yea, I thought of that :D, but I really only like to give Rado a hard time about it because he only pretends to be one.

[Shibby]

doesn't change the fact that everytime you walk by people go *cough*pussy*cough*.

Doesn't change that fact that you let their opinion define who you are. I prefer to do that myself :)

If you constantly worry about what other people think of you and mold your life around that, your personality is nothing more than the current fad.

[ROCKETW19]

Well this would be good advice if everyone in the world was like you and I, but I'm pretty sure if he punched this guy in the face, he would lose his job, get charged with assault and battery,and maybe get slapped with some sort of law suit and/or have to pay all his medical bills.

When I had problems with people to the point of fighting I would say stop talking or punch me. I always say that actions speak louder than words.

So be it! I have beat people up at work on the streets in stores and resturants. I have gone to jail for it 1 time (comuity service)
I can bet my life the OP does not have the record I have and would get a slap on the wrist.

My point is if you do something I dont like I will tell you if you disrespect me and do it againg we will fight no matter the out come.

[ROCKETW19]

Okay, you're gonna get pissy at this...just so you know in advance.

I honestly, do not understand this mentality at all. Winning the physical fight, doesn't make you right. All it does is shut one party up. I can think of a few examples/questions I have off the top of my head to illustrate this.

I think you like the idea of fighting because you feel you'll kick the other dudes ass, and that makes you the 'winner'. All in does though, is show your superior ability to fight.

Not gonna get pissy bro you are not talking down to me or saying I am wrong you are giving your opnion witch is totaly fine and respected.

We all look at thing different in this world you see things one way I see them another. Maybe my upbringing and prison made me this way or maybe I am just like this but it is what it is.
Its not that I feel like the "winner" but he will stop whatever it is I didnt like win or lose and if he dont we will do it all over again.

[ROCKETW19]

time, place, and situation my friend.

like the situation i laid out to shibby. if he was at the zoo and some guy came up and disrespected his wife and son, then the guy deserves to be dropped.

but in this situation the guy wasnt even directly talking about his wife or daughter and was just being a dumbass at work. like i said, pull him aside, tell him to stop being a dumb ass etc..

but this whole following the guy home and all this crap is a bunch of shit.

Everyone has buttons that can get pushed in different ways! to me what the OP said would not bother me to the point of fighting. I personaly think the guy was just a dumb fuck. but to the OP it was enough for him to fight so I would tell him to stop or handle it.

I wouldnt follow him either but you dont know what the OP had in store for this guy. Remember we all chat on here and have a good time but some of us tick different! Shit that dont phase you or I might make someone else kill? you never know the OP could of been mad enough to kill him we dont know.

[Mr I]

Hope the TS is cool now, yeah what some people (Bouncer) don't understand is that people can be reflective thinkers, sometimes someone says something, it doesn't feel right but its not immediately something to snap back at them about, then you think about it and it pisses you off more. Maybe this hasn't happened to you but it does happen.

at the end of the day he said something at the time, its done

[Bouncer]

Doesn't change that fact that you let their opinion define who you are. I prefer to do that myself :)

If you constantly worry about what other people think of you and mold your life around that, your personality is nothing more than the current fad.

once again, your full of shit.

every human on this planet wants to be respected. it is our nature. if people are laughing at you or saying "that guy is a pussy" you are not being respected.

you can try and prove all day how it wouldn't bother you but your talking out of your ass. you want to be respected, everyone does.

[Bouncer]

Everyone has buttons that can get pushed in different ways! to me what the OP said would not bother me to the point of fighting. I personaly think the guy was just a dumb fuck. but to the OP it was enough for him to fight so I would tell him to stop or handle it.

I wouldnt follow him either but you dont know what the OP had in store for this guy. Remember we all chat on here and have a good time but some of us tick different! Shit that dont phase you or I might make someone else kill? you never know the OP could of been mad enough to kill him we dont know.

dosent matter how the OP thinks. dosent change the fact that he is wrong.

[Bouncer]

Hope the TS is cool now, yeah what some people (Bouncer) don't understand is that people can be reflective thinkers, sometimes someone says something, it doesn't feel right but its not immediately something to snap back at them about, then you think about it and it pisses you off more. Maybe this hasn't happened to you but it does happen.

at the end of the day he said something at the time, its done

so you pull the guy aside and let him know you didn't appreciate it and don't do it again. you dont follow the guy home like some kind of nut job when the guy didnt even say anything directly about his wife or kid in the first place. lol

[3v1lj03]

There is always going to be stupid people saying stupid things. Should we go around fighting them all?

If evolution is fact and survival of the fittest is real hen YES. I should crush all the inferior stupid people.

[the art of war]

If evolution is fact and survival of the fittest is real hen YES. I should crush all the inferior stupid people.

:clapback: well put, but unfortunately our brains evolve as well - so we can't just go thumpin shitheads on the noodle when they talk smack :P

[3v1lj03]

even if he didn't get it there face. if he screamed it at them from 5 feet away you still need to stand up for them. if you didn't i guarantee your wife would always ask herself, "why didn't he defend me"?.

ask your wife. ask her to be honest.

This is the reason I am so offended by what he said.

[Bouncer]

This is the reason I am so offended by what he said.

but there is a few differences.

#1. he never went up to your wife and started putting her down

#2. he admited he didnt even know what you guys were talking about. so he really wasnt even directing it at you or your family.