swinger lifestyle

[Shibby]

not for me. too jealous ,not possessive.just jealous.

Oxymoron :thumup:

[wnabeabeast]

Sex = exercise

there is nothing more to it. It is enjoyable cardio. sinc eI started looking at it like that a few years ago, I find it so much easier to talk to women

Oh yeah, how would you feel if some guy was getting his exercise on by fucking the shit out of your wife or your girlfriend?

I don't play that game.

[Mr I]

They had an open marriage, not swingers.

The inability to separate sex and love is a social construct, not an instinctual one. Read anything on sexual psychology and it's actually odd that we are mostly monogamous animals. We created this sense of sexual possession of another person. I know there are pro's as well as con's to having an open sexual relationship. Everyone will have to choose for themselves what completes their needs. It doesn't matter if it's and open relationship, a monogamous, poly, straight, gay, bi... as you can see it all depends on personality and culture.

Typical black guy bullshit and the reason HIV is most rampant with that race, that social construct you talk about is called civility which comes natural to some but is apparently impossible for others.

[Shibby]

Typical black guy bullshit and the reason HIV is most rampant with that race, that social construct you talk about is called civility which comes natural to some but is apparently impossible for others.

:noo:

[mofo]

Oh yeah, how would you feel if some guy was getting his exercise on by fucking the shit out of your wife or your girlfriend?

I don't play that game.

hahahaha. i would probably rip the head off the chick and my guy if they were fucking for exercise.

Typical black guy bullshit and the reason HIV is most rampant with that race, that social construct you talk about is called civility which comes natural to some but is apparently impossible for others.

again, hahahaha.

[Mr I]

:noo:

Exactly, its fair to say that if there was only one girl in the world you would ever fuck then the human race would shut down fast since you would be highly unlikely to ever meet here in the first instance. But there has to be some social commonality and environmental proximity for sex to happen at all. From there though you will form other comonalities and and if you compliment each other fall in love. You see its actually more natural than you think shibbs since its born out of our most primary instinnct that of survival. If your goonna try tell me the urge for survival is taught by society then I'll call bullshit.

[Shibby]

Exactly, its fair to say that if there was only one girl in the world you would ever fuck then the human race would shut down fast since you would be highly unlikely to ever meet here in the first instance. But there has to be some social commonality and environmental proximity for sex to happen at all. From there though you will form other comonalities and and if you compliment each other fall in love. You see its actually more natural than you think shibbs since its born out of our most primary instinnct that of survival. If your goonna try tell me the urge for survival is taught by society then I'll call bullshit.

You are all over the place with your post, if I even tried to respond we would be having conversations about a few different topics at the same time. Your assumptions connect things where I first have to explain those misconceptions before I can even get to the point of this topic.

So instead, how about you explain to me how monogamous sex is the basis for a family structure. Then as you are explaining how having a family makes you have a greater responsibility than fulfilling your sexual needs; Tell me the rules for having sex for divorced parents.

[Bouncer]

You are all over the place with your post, if I even tried to respond we would be having conversations about a few different topics at the same time. Your assumptions connect things where I first have to explain those misconceptions before I can even get to the point of this topic.

So instead, how about you explain to me how monogamous sex is the basis for a family structure. Then as you are explaining how having a family makes you have a greater responsibility than fulfilling your sexual needs; Tell me the rules for having sex for divorced parents.

call me stupid but i never understand anything you are saying when making a point.

i feel like you are the white cop in sanford and son, i always need someone to brake down what you are saying in basic and simple words.

[Shibby]

call me stupid but i never understand anything you are saying when making a point.

i feel like you are the white cop in sanford and son, i always need someone to brake down what you are saying in basic and simple words.

Imagine Mr I's post as a connect the dot picture without numbers to tell you what dot is next. Basically his views connects dots that shouldn't be connected or are connected out of order. Most of us have things in life that we take for granted as it is just the way it is. Our beliefs are circular because that's what we were always told and all we knew. But that doesn't mean it's the only way.

For example, to have a happy family, most people feel you go to school, then college, then a job, then meet someone, get married, then have a family. But of course we all that's not true. We also know that over 50% of the people who follow the above path fail (divorce). Yet most people insist on still doing it, instead of following the path that best fits who they are. Everyone is so different, there is no way we can follow a cookie cutter way of life. Especially one that was created decades ago. We all know there is no cookie cutter gym routine. We are all so different. Why do most insist that in other parts of life, especially the mind, that we are or should be the same.

[alwaysgrowing]

Imagine Mr I's post as a connect the dot picture without numbers to tell you what dot is next. Basically his views connects dots that shouldn't be connected or are connected out of order. Most of us have things in life that we take for granted as it is just the way it is. Our beliefs are circular because that's what we were always told and all we knew. But that doesn't mean it's the only way.

For example, to have a happy family, most people feel you go to school, then college, then a job, then meet someone, get married, then have a family. But of course we all that's not true. We also know that over 50% of the people who follow the above path fail (divorce). Yet most people insist on still doing it, instead of following the path that best fits who they are. Everyone is so different, there is no way we can follow a cookie cutter way of life. Especially one that was created decades ago. We all know there is no cookie cutter gym routine. We are all so different. Why do most insist that in other parts of life, especially the mind, that we are or should be the same.

:thumup::thumup:

[Bouncer]

Imagine Mr I's post as a connect the dot picture without numbers to tell you what dot is next. Basically his views connects dots that shouldn't be connected or are connected out of order. Most of us have things in life that we take for granted as it is just the way it is. Our beliefs are circular because that's what we were always told and all we knew. But that doesn't mean it's the only way.

For example, to have a happy family, most people feel you go to school, then college, then a job, then meet someone, get married, then have a family. But of course we all that's not true. We also know that over 50% of the people who follow the above path fail (divorce). Yet most people insist on still doing it, instead of following the path that best fits who they are. Everyone is so different, there is no way we can follow a cookie cutter way of life. Especially one that was created decades ago. We all know there is no cookie cutter gym routine. We are all so different. Why do most insist that in other parts of life, especially the mind, that we are or should be the same.

bottom line, we must all follow our own path and do what works for us and makes us happy.

see, keep shit simple son! :clapback:

[Mr I]

We are all different shibbs yes. But simply speaking, what you call unnatural, like not fucking everything you can to spread your seed for example, is something that is entirely natural to others. Raising a family where mommy and daddy don't openly fuvk other people is in my view proven to be better for kids and their relationship. Nothing to do with being brainwashed it just is. You try and make those people that live what you call a normal life out to be brainwashed, stupid and unadventurous. Its simply not the case, its healthy helpful and can be great. And it is civilised which to a point is about survival and therefor somewhat instinctive.

[alwaysgrowing]

bottom line, we must all follow our own path and do what works for us and makes us happy.

see, keep shit simple son! :clapback:

Exactly his point.

What we consider "normal" is a construct of the scoiety in which we live. There are cultures in the world that will find our culture, including monogamy not "normal." It is all about how we are raised. Hence why judging others for their choices may seem rational, but is in reality subjective.

[Shibby]

bottom line, we must all follow our own path and do what works for us and makes us happy.

see, keep shit simple son! :clapback:

I feel I did in the first time :weights:

[Shibby]

We are all different shibbs yes. But simply speaking, what you call unnatural, like not fucking everything you can to spread your seed for example, is something that is entirely natural to others. Raising a family where mommy and daddy don't openly fuvk other people is in my view proven to be better for kids and their relationship. Nothing to do with being brainwashed it just is. You try and make those people that live what you call a normal life out to be brainwashed, stupid and unadventurous. Its simply not the case, its healthy helpful and can be great. And it is civilised which to a point is about survival and therefor somewhat instinctive.

Putting words in my mouth and creating a circular argument says nothing to me.