Hey Art of War

[Bouncer]

I agree and everyone on here already knows that about him but I guess I was hoping he had some dignity left in him.

He does. But he is conflicted. You can see it in his posts through the seasons. A roller coaster of personalities. A good guy lost in a sea of insecurity and conflict.

Make no mistake though, this very conversation we are having about HIM was the reason he responded in the way that he did. He has a very strong need to feel important and even this little chat feeds that need. "Someone took notice of what I said and was effected by it!"

I know because I am similar. I simply do it better and in a likable way.

[Mr I]

You're a joke. Not going to even try and defend your above statement. I actually feel sorry for you bro. Maybe you weren't hugged enough as a child?

You're displaying the exact behaviour that occurred previously, except your trying it on with me, which will get you nowhere.

Fact is he copped alot of flack and I remember feeling for him because it was clear he was vulnerable. I love an argument but he wasn't that sort, people picked holes and when he responded they picked more. I remember generally getting on well with him and we PMd me often. He spoke of coming over to the UK

Facts are he had some issues and that is a real shame and that is one thing that perhaps led to his demise.

Separately, he wasn't treat well on here and it's pathetic the double standards of people now coming out all sentimental.

[Mr I]

He does. But he is conflicted. You can see it in his posts through the seasons. A roller coaster of personalities. A good guy lost in a sea of insecurity and conflict.

Make no mistake though, this very conversation we are having about HIM was the reason he responded in the way that he did. He has a very strong need to feel important and even this little chat feeds that need. "Someone took notice of what I said and was effected by it!"

I know because I am similar. I simply do it better and in a likable way.

No, you own the board. People just say it behind your back on PM

Look, let's not do this now. But quit with the sentimental shit you completely bagged the guy at the time and you know it.

[Mr I]

I just lost my cousin right before Christmas to depression. He took his own life. Shot himself in the head. The hardest part for me was not knowing how much he was struggling. I had no idea. I can't imagine getting to a place in my life that I would have to do something like that. Like FB, I wish that I would have been able to help him. He was such a smart guy too. He was a professor at a college in his area. Very tragic event. His parents are a mess.

Truly sorry for your loss

[Bouncer]

No, you own the board. People just say it behind your back on PM

Look, let's not do this now. But quit with the sentimental shit you completely bagged the guy at the time and you know it.

Your insecurity of power is apparent in the fact that you are obsessed with me owning the forum. You point it out every chance you get in order to make yourself feel better about a perceived weakness. I destroy you on an intellectual level regardless of ownership.

Fact is, no threads are edited. Nobody is banned for arguing with me. I allow people to have their say.

As for AOW, I treated him the same way alive as I do in his death. Nothing sentimental with me. I'm saying nothing different now that I didn't when I argued with him. You don't see me saying stupid shit like "RIP" as you have done. I speak the truth and I say what I mean. Nothing more, nothing less. He was a smart guy with a major weakness. I told him this when he was alive and I'm saying it now.

[Mr I]

^I'm not even reading any of your drivel

I say things as I see them and that's all.

And I will not respond to any further posts on this thread because it's not about me and im not trying to make it that way I simply pointed out the hypocrisy and that it's worth remembering people may have issues beneath the surface so treat them well.

Flame all you like RIP AoW

[Bouncer]

You read every single word. Lets not kid ourselves. The effect I have on you is equal to the amount of effort you put in to hide it. ;)

RIP

[Chadd77]

You're displaying the exact behaviour that occurred previously, except your trying it on with me, which will get you nowhere.

Huh?? :retard:

No need to pm me bro. I should have just let your comment go without even acknowledging it. My mistake.

[Bouncer]

lmao. him and his fucking pm's.

every few months I get a novel about how he's "taking a step back" from the board.

lol @ people who let this shit get to them so deeply that they have to "take a step back" from it.

hey mr.i try taking a step back off a fucken cliff you worthless scab. :cheese:

[blm]

He talks about the negativity of people, the hurtful things they say, and respect yet he is one of the most easily offended individuals on here who goes right for the throat with down right disrespectful personal attacks; like that shit he said when lipripper busted his balls and he started talking about him fucking his daughter.

We all bust balls on here and at times go over board but he is the only one I can think of that makes truly personal attacks.

[Chadd77]

Didn't realize he said that about lip's daughter. That's messed up. Doesn't matter if you try and say you were kidding or not you just don't go there.

B, why do you keep him on here?

And Mr I, please stop sending me PM's. As I stated before I will not reply to them. lol

[Bouncer]

He talks about the negativity of people, the hurtful things they say, and respect yet he is one of the most easily offended individuals on here who goes right for the throat with down right disrespectful personal attacks; like that shit he said when lipripper busted his balls and he started talking about him fucking his daughter.

We all bust balls on here and at times go over board but he is the only one I can think of that makes truly personal attacks.

You Sir can expect a pm for that one! :cheese::cheese:

B, why do you keep him on here?

I try pretty hard not to "silence" someone. Banning seems like a weak minded thing to do for the most part.

Plus there are times when he does bring something to the table. It's just ashame that 99% of the time he comes to the table covered in shit.

[Chadd77]

I agree with you but there are some situations that need to be addressed. I think the comment on Lip is one of them. Make fun of Lip for banging a duck but you cross the line as soon as you bring his family into a comment.

[FitnessBrat]

You're displaying the exact behaviour that occurred previously, except your trying it on with me, which will get you nowhere.

Fact is he copped alot of flack and I remember feeling for him because it was clear he was vulnerable. I love an argument but he wasn't that sort, people picked holes and when he responded they picked more. I remember generally getting on well with him and we PMd me often. He spoke of coming over to the UK

Facts are he had some issues and that is a real shame and that is one thing that perhaps led to his demise.

Separately, he wasn't treat well on here and it's pathetic the double standards of people now coming out all sentimental.

I absolutely have zero desire to argue with anyone. I only came here to let everyone know, because *I* was truly saddened by his death. I knew John outside of this site, quite well, actually. So with that said, I would honestly like to know who it is that is playing a double standard today? There have only been a couple of people that have replied to my original post stating the loss - Scrum, Bouncer, Chadd, Rado, Henry, and Blm.

[Turbo3000]

I feel for his family and loved ones. Sucks that he lost the battle.